"Not many on earth who can slide between
Lou Reed and Erma Bombeck and be
this consistently funny."
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First Comes Love by Marion Winik
Download the audio here.

2/9/2026: There's a new wrinkle in the weight loss drug saga. Interested parties should check out Saint Bernice Saves The Day on Baltimore Fishbowl.

1/17/26: I am having so much fun with the First Comes Love 30th birthday media coverage and celebrations. Events coming up in Austin, NYC, Boston and Washington, DC. New edition and new audiobook available wherever you like to buy such things.

9/6/25: The story of a long and nurturing friendship: Ellen, of All People, also on Fishbowl.

Things to Read
"I Knew He Was Gay and I Married Him Anyway," for Oprah Daily
Journalist Jane Winik Sartwell interviews her mom, for Writer's Digest
On People.com: A Marriage, An AIDS Diagnosis, and A Death By Suicide: The Story of First Comes Love
On Lit Hub: Marion Winik on Marrying a Gay Man, Telling Secrets, Writing Fiction vs. Nonfiction
In Publishers Weekly: Twelve Memoirs of Widowhood
"My Life as a Memoirist" for The Shit They Don't Tell You About Writing substack
Audiofile review, very nice
Leslie Gray Streeter's article in The Baltimore Banner
On Baltimore Fishbowl: Happy 30th Birthday, First Comes Love: Behind the Scenes of the New Audiobook

Things to Listen To or Watch
Tom Hall interview on WYPR's Midday
PRH podcast, "This is the Author"
Jason Blitman's superfun "Gays Reading" podcast
Dani Shapiro's podcast Family Secrets, "Should We Do This?"

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Browse the Bohemian Rhapsody archive — running since 2011 on Baltimore Fishbowl.

Marion's "Lives" columns for The New York Times Magazine: "Grand Theft Litho" and "A Mother of A Certain Age".

An archive of Marion's commentaries for All Things Considered.

Lots more essays and articles in the links archive and work archive.

 


I Know About a Thousand Things, ed. Naomi Shihab Nye and Marion Winik
Order on Bookshop.org


The Weekly Reader on WYPR-FM with Marion Winik and Lisa Morgan
Listen live Wednesdays at 2:33 pm, or play the podcast anytime at The Weekly Reader.